Events

Alongside supporting families, we’re passionate about creating a space where people can feel comfortable talking about death, dying and grief, without it feeling overwhelming or intimidating.

We host a range of events including relaxed talks, creative workshops, crafting sessions and arts-based activities designed to gently open up conversation and bring people together. Some events explore grief, loss and planning ahead, while others are simply about creativity, connection and spending time with other people.

Whether you’re looking for support, curious to learn more, or just fancy coming along for a chat and a brew, you’re always welcome.

A room with a high, sloped ceiling and three large windows letting in natural light. There is a long table set with colorful paper and a mixture of wooden and upholstered chairs around it. In the background, a flat-screen TV displays the logo 'grave expectations' on a stand.
Colorful illustration of a coffee cup with a sugar skull design, emitting steam shaped like a heart, with the text 'Death Cafe' below. Background has flowers and hearts.

Death Café – free!

There’s no agenda or pressure to speak — you’re welcome to chat, listen or simply be part of the conversation.

Facilitated in partnership with funeral celebrant Kate Stoddart.

21 October 2026, 11am - 1pm

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Autumn Wreaths Workshop

Spend an evening creating your very own dried flower wreath.  All tuition, materials and equipment provided.

Call Claire on 07531 215013 for more information or to book a place.

16 October 2026, 7pm

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Tying Up Loose Ends

A useful short course, over 2 mornings, for thinking and planning for end of life and future wishes in our beautiful community space.

Facilitated in partnership with funeral celebrant Kate Stoddart.

18 & 25 November 2026

10.30am - 1.30pm

Book a place here

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Christmas Wreaths workshop

Come and join us for a creative few hours and build an environmentally friendly, plastic free, festive wreath.

All tools, materials and decorations are provided along with festive drinks, snacks and live entertainment.

Call Claire on 07531 215013 for more information or to book a place.

27 November 2026, 7pm - 9pm

29 November 2026, 1pm - 3pm

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Winter Lantern Making

Come and join us to create beautiful paper lanterns, using simple tracing techniques or freehand drawing if you wish, to celebrate the season and bring comfort and light through the winter nights. 

No experience necessary. You will be fully guided by Lise Bennett, and inspiration will be in abundance! 

Share a cuppa, some tasty treats and the company of good humans, for two hours of ‘you’ time. We look forward to seeing you. 

5 December 2026, 1pm - 3pm

Booking advised.

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk

£25 inclusive of materials and refreshments.

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Winter Wellbeing Workshop

Take some time to treat yourself! 

At this workshop, you can choose your own jar of infused herbal oil and learn some simple hand reflexology techniques to bring relaxation and lift your wellbeing. 

Facilitated with Tilly Martin AoR from Gentle Reflexology, based in Darley Dale.

13 December 2026, 11.30am - 1pm

£9.95

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Anti-Christmas Memory Boards

When you are grieving, Christmas is particularly hard, we know how that feels. We'd like to help you create a legacy board about your loved one while we completely ignore anything to do with Christmas!

Facilitated in partnership with Kate Parkin Creative.

19 December 2026, 1pm - 4pm

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk or kateparkincreative@gmail.com

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Vision Board Workshop

Join us for a creative workshop where you can visualise what you want for the year ahead to look like.  See Instagram for details.

Facilitated in partnership with Kate Parkin Creative.

8 January 2027, 1pm - 4pm

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk or kateparkincreative@gmail.com

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

Canva Basics Course

Bring your laptop and be talked through how to do an 'all about me' on Free Canva, whilst getting advice on brand colours and fonts.


Facilitated in partnership with Kate Parkin Creative.

6 February 2027, 1pm - 4pm

To book a place email beccy@graveexpectations.co.uk or kateparkincreative@gmail.com

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

Come and say hello - we’d love to see you.

A silver necklace with a blue heart-shaped pendant rests on a red book titled "For When I'm Gone" and a colorful floral magazine.

How would you say goodbye?

Death is part of life, let’s be practical about it.

A workshop to create your ideal funeral… just in case.

Multiple dates and times - follow link below to book.

Grave Expectations, DE4 3LY

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